Relationships don't break over big events, they break over small ones. People never climb mountains, they climb over scattered bricks and stones. We are alert and ready when faced with something as big as a mountain. But bricks and stones often escape our attention, so we often stumble over them. Just like life, the path of relationships is like this. Be it love, friendship, marriage or family, a relationship never breaks over a major issue. Relationships break over small misunderstandings, neglect, unspoken hurt feelings or not paying enough attention at the right time. These small flaws may seem insignificant at first, but day by day they add up and become bigger than mountains. When there is no longer any way to understand, separation becomes the only solution. We often think, "Why is he so angry over such a small thing...?" But maybe that small thing is big for him. Maybe he needs to relax by talking a little every day, maybe he needs a little more time, maybe a sentence or expression of yours has left a deep wound in his mind. A wound does not always need a big weapon, a wound only deepens when it hits a place where it is felt. So, to maintain a relationship, you do not need to do something big. It only needs a little care, a little attention, a little understanding. A timely message, a cup of tea on a tiring day, being silent next to someone in distress or listening attentively to their thoughts. These small actions build lifelong bonds. Relationships are about being able to imagine yourself in each other's shoes. Trying to understand their feelings from their perspective. A little care, a little respect, a little importance, a little empathy - these are the backbone of a relationship. Remember, a relationship is like a beautiful garden. Every day, you need to water it, clean the weeds, and make sure it gets sunlight. If you ignore it, it will dry up. Therefore, the little things in a relationship should not be ignored, but should be embraced with care. Because the greatest happiness in life lies within those little things! Copied

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